I was too depressed that time. Maybe I had mental issues but were not properly addressed. Now I’m aware, I’ve read books. Life is still a struggle but life moves on..

It has been seven years. I thought moving on means forgetting everything, forgetting the love i had and throwing it away. It wasn’t like that. It was like tethered to me. Whenever I try to throw it, it just comes back. I learned that you never really forget everything. It will just be embedded deep inside your heart, keep it there and move on. I still have that love but I know it is just a distant memory.

That works too. I hope I learned it the easy way.

Hello. Cannot sleep last night wondering if I could still be able to open this. Hello
What help do you need, twin flame

Apathy

Pabayaan nalang natin sila. yung mga nangmamaliit saatin.. patawarin nalang natin sila, kahit walang sorry.. oo mahirap yun.. pero pag nagawa natin, maganda naman yung mga susunod na mangyayari..
sa ngayon, kung wala pa tayong magawa, yun nalang ang gawin muna natin. pero yung plans mo, wag mo aalisin yun. gawin mo padin.. pero mas ok kasi diba yung habang tinutupad mo ung plans mo, eh wala kang nararamdamang galit, o bigat, o bitterness. kasi pag may bitterness halimbawa, parang mappressure ka na gawin kaagad yung plans eh, yung pipilitin mo sarili mo, para lang makawala sa mga taong yun. sa huli, ikaw din yung maiistress..
so sa ngayon, let's forgive muna, kaya mo yun, magaling ka dun eh :) forgive muna, then ituloy yung plans na walang bitterness sa ibang tao, although, hindi ganun kadali yun, pero aun, wag na natin dagdagan ung nagpapastress satin dahil lang sa mga tao.

parang ganito lang yan eh..
yung gusto mong magmove on, pero may bitterness ka naman sakanya, ang gagawin mo, sasabihin mo sa sarili mo, "pag ako nakamove on.... *insert ganti lines here*" ganyan ang nagiging point of view ng mga bitter diba, haha, yung puro ganti ang nasa isip, magmomove on ako tapos gagantihan kita.. tapos pipilitin yung sarili makamove on, in the end, sya din ung stressed, sya din ung wasak.
pero kung nagforgive na sya, magkakaron sya ng peace of mind. alam nya na mahirap magmove on, pero ang point of view nya, "ok lang yan, mahirap pero dadating din yung araw na yun".. diba mas maganda, dadating parin syempre yung times na maaalala, na malungkot, na iiyak, pero alam nya na normal yun, kasi anjan na yun eh. pero focused sya dun sa pagiging better para makamove on, hindi para makaganti..

gawin mo yung plans mo for yourself, for your future, for your loved ones, not for your enemies.
syempre hindi mawawala yung stress. lagi anjan yan, kasi lagi tayo may problema, pero ang pinakamabuti nating gawin is to lessen stress diba. para sa sarili na din. at yun yung paraan para malessen ang stress, forgive, then hayaan nalang sila, so what so whatin nalang natin sila.. at dun, naaapply din yung sinabi ko dati, na ipaubaya nalang natin sila sa may kaya..
sabi nga, ang mapagmataas ay syang ibababa, at ang mapakumbaba ay syang itataas.
tama yung ginawa nyo, stay humble, wag nalang pumatol.
practice apathy. ok din yun minsan. hehehe
we cannot please everybody.. in the end.. sino ba sila?

ayun, sana maging effective din to sayo..
i should have said these things when you opened up to me.. pero meh, hindi kasi ako marunong magcomfort ehh, eh ayun ngayon ko lang naisip to, na sana sinabi ko nun.. hehe sana mabasa mo to, hindi ko na directly isesend sayo, nakakahiya ehhh :P hehe ayun,
i hope this can comfort you somehow Edmarck.. kaya mo yan. :)

yeah.

I'm only worth 20 minutes a week. Great. That's cool.

Change

wala na talaga eh, dibale na..
maguumpisa nalang siguro ako mag move-on..

balang araw makakahanap din ako ng ibang lalake na mapapangasawa ko,
yun nalang iisipin ko..


cried again after a long time
sayonara

Life update, Sheeps

At this point of our lives, it seems that everything is now falling out..

Today is our 1.5th anniversary. and it's like he doesn't know it. Hahaha.. well im tired of having the excitement to greet when there's no something special about it. I always have that urge before, until now too, but i chose not to.. besides we ended up yesterday in a shit and started this day with still a shit..

it seems like i'm all tired of all these things.. all those on and off emotions, all those feelings of upset over things that i don't get but i claim mine, happiness that are often temporary, joy that is completely forgotten, heart that became closed, brain that became unreasonable..

Last night before i sleep, i took a look at my blog..
for the nth time, i kicked his ass outta here. haha, like i said before, this is getting boring and there's no more interaction.. i miss those times when he write about things with full emotion. that has only happened once lol
so i read a few latest entries like my New Year's Resolution, and evaluated it now.. to be honest those are really hard resolutions and it's just not a temporary change bu a life change. i admit that it has been very hard for me to do that and i don't think if i had done it already hahaha.. T___T so 1-3 is a NO (lol) until i read the fourth one, which is the easiest i think- but still hard tho..

i think, a part of this has changed me. evaluating my life this year, i realized that i cry less now. i don't cry over stupid things now like i always do before, i became stronger, i think.. i have lessen the tears, i have lessen being hurt. i have lessen jealousy?, i have lessen the care!, i have lessen the uke, i have lessen the envy :)
instead.. i think, this is still no good. i have lessen all those things, but it became a big negativity now. a big anger now. a big pride, a big rage.. T__T
it's like i rage about all those things that affects me little, i became somehow bipolar. :/ and that made me produce the things that i am now tired of. realizing that, i only created all those things.. i miss my simple life before, where there's a little bit of everything.
Before, i do not let my rage out.. i cry it out instead.. i pour it out on other things not by saying it all, i pour it out by actions, like, by punching it out to the wall.. remember before when we do not fight at all- when we used to be proud of saying "hindi pa tayo nagaaway" simula umpisa, because it was just me receiving all the hurt and "forgetting" it, crying it alone, punching it to the wall, let the rage out all by myself. but it's not as easy as that. it was insane. To be honest is is more easier now. to let rage go out from me- to us- to our relationship.. it feels good though compared to before.. like i said, it made me not cry anymore, not punch the wall anymore, not destructing our picture anymore (which was nearly torn out before haha), but i still do not know which is better- to create a fuss about simple things that would just create an argument or releasing it by actions.. both things will affect a big part of something, affect us, my outer relationship with people whom i love for the former, and affect my inner relationship or relationship with myself that i might just go insane, with the latter. but it seems it was more simple before than how it is now..

that was what he said when i asked about falling out.

So last night, i wrote the first half of this while laying on the bed.. as i went to sleep i realized something..
something that reveals what i really want after all.
that All i want is change. i want my life to change.. whether outdoor, indoor, relationship or anything.. all i want is change, should it be to go outside everyday or do activities everyday, anything, i wanted to be busy, i want change, and that somehow explains why i want to go out of this relationship, without knowing what to do next if that happens.. it's because i want change and i think it is just the available thing now that's why i keep on doing that. T__T i feel so imbecile :<
and realized too that all those on and off emotions, all those feelings of upset over things that i don't get but i claim mine, happiness that are often temporary, joy that is completely forgotten, heart that became closed, brain that became unreasonable.. are the things that i'm tired of and things that i wanted to get away out of my peaceful life.. not the relationship. and i was just thinking that ending the relationship would solve that problem.. although it may.. but it's not the best solution.


If i had community to socialize with, activities that will keep me busy and will keep me away from you that will make me miss you, would it still be like this?
if no, then carry on. lol
if yes, then give up.. or find more better solutions :)

i think it's just the way how it is......


my life is a big fault now


P.S. ang sakit ng ulo ko kakapigil ng luha lam mo yun, haha

ugh.

cry bitch.


this blog is getting kinda boring. there's no more interaction. thinking of putting this down..
we're falling anyway